Relationship Counseling Is One Of The Most Difficult Things On Earth In An Effective Manner To Do

(Last Updated On: May 18, 2017)

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Relationship Counseling:

Relationship counseling is much in demand comprising marriage counseling, couples counseling, family counseling, premarital counseling and many more variants of it.

Why do people need so much of all these kinds of relationship counseling? Why aren’t they able to manage their relationships themselves?

It’s so simply because relationships are complex structures involving the most complicated entities called human minds and relationship problems are the most common things happening to them!

When human minds get stuck, it’s not easy to get them moving.

Then it’s the job of relationship counselors to get them moving again in connection with one another by clearing the blocks in minds that have got them stuck.

That’s a gigantic task to accomplish!

It Needs Insight, Not Knowledge Alone:

They need to know a lot more than their clients about the dynamics of mind in relationship with another.

How would they get this insight?

They might have gone through a lot of ups and downs in their own relationships and used them as an opportunity to get deep insights by learning from their own experiences about life in general and relationships in particular.

But there is another brand of relationship counselors who have undergone some kind of standard relationship counseling courses or programs to earn degrees in the said discipline. They might have learned a lot about the structural aspects of counseling in general and relationship counseling in particular but in all probability they might be missing the most crucial aspect of it which is an insight into the dynamics of mind in its relationships that’s not a part of any curriculum in any university.

The Dynamics of Minds in Relationship:

  • The dynamics of the dark sides of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the bright sides of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the petty concerns of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the serious concerns of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the ego clashes of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the levels of physical satisfactions in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the worldviews of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the likes and dislikes of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the habit patterns of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of creative interactions of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the instinctive drives of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the expectations of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the priorities of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the aspirations of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the value systems of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the maturity levels of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the energy levels of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the attitudes of giving space in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the possessive attitudes of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the caring attitudes of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the liberal attitudes of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the spontaneous attitudes of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the romantic capacities of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the aesthetic compatibility of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the intellectual compatibility of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the emotional compatibility of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the social compatibility of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the professional compatibility of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the complementary characteristics of minds in relationship!
  • The dynamics of the subconscious pulls aka chemistry of minds in relationship!

It’s Gigantic:

That’s a hell of a lot of insight to have into the workings of minds in relationship. No courses in relationship counseling can ever address them in their real depths at all.

It’s only the school of life that can equip those who has already opened themselves up to learn from it day and night what it has in its dynamically unpredictable store to teach.

How to Find Genuine Relationship Counselors:

There are not many people who learn direct from life its most secret insights. The ones who do are rare on earth.

The moment you come across someone who you realize has real insights into relationship counseling, catch hold of her or him in case you need one for yourself.

You cannot select them from a list to choose the best out of it. You simply discover them spontaneously.

And as they work with your relationship problems with their relationship counseling insights, they would be transferring the same to you as well.

That’s killing two birds with stone!

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